Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Flower Fantasy

My daughter works with this young woman who is said to offer thought provoking questions to the people around her, just to get them thinking.
Last week, my daughter asked me the latest question that her coworker had asked, which was, "If you had a thousand dollars, and you had to spend it all at once, and you couldn't use it to pay bills, what would you spend it on?"
Seems simple enough and yet, to our surprise, many of us have had a difficult time answering that question.
I realized that I desperately wanted to use this money to pay off some bills, and yet that was not allowed. I thought it would be easy to think of something else, and yet I couldn't.
"Are you sure I can't use it to pay some bills?" I asked my daughter, as if the money were real.
"No."
I couldn't think of what else I would possibly spend it on, which I believe, in itself, is supposed to tell you something about yourself. At least, I began wondering what it was telling me about myself.
It wasn't until this week that I really thought about what simple thing within my reach that I was not reaching for could make me happy.
And then I got it.
Of all the things that I could whine and complain about that I do not have and that I wish I had, I have been trying to make a more concentrated effort on being grateful for what I do have. I am doing this because I have found that it is far too easy for me to say "I have nothing!" when in reality, despite what I don't have, I have really been blessed with so much.
I realized that, despite the way things have been and the stories you hear about people losing everything, today I do have my own home. I do have a roof over my head, and as much as I complain that my backyard is ugly and bare, that is of my own doing, because, unlike many people who look out their back window and have no backyard, I do have a backyard.
I don't have a green thumb and so sometimes I plant some flowers and they die. Then again, I mostly buy the flowers and then they hang around in the plastic pots they came in until they die. Even then I'll start crying about how I watered them so how come they died? Until my mom and dad, who have a beautiful backyard, told me that you have to take them out of the plastic pots or they'll die.
Anyway, I said all that to say that one of the things I have always longed for was a beautiful, wild type of backyard garden, and that if I had that I would be so happy.
So, back to the thousand dollars, I realized that if I had a thousand dollars I would use it to pay someone to create for me as much of the garden of my dreams as I could create for a thousand dollars.
Of course, that thousand dollars was not real, but it made me think, if having that garden would honestly make you that happy, why not just make it happen?
It doesn't cost that much to buy some plants, even if I only buy them one or two at a time. Then get down on my knees and take the few minutes to put them in the ground and water them and before I know it, little by little, I can have that beautiful backyard garden I have always dreamed of.
So really, how hard is that? I mean, compared to complaining about what I don't have?
So that is what I am going to do, even if it is one plant at a time.
I'm writing it here so I can be accountable.
Meanwhile, I had fun painting this canvas of pretty flowers! Until I get to the Garden section of Target, this is a wonderful start!

Wishing all your dreams come true!
Carol B.

4 comments:

Maria-Thérèse afiori.com said...

What a happy painting!!
As for the $1000... I would go back to Paris and stay a week! :D

Carol B. said...

ON SECOND THOUGHT...Maria-Therese, I finally made up my mind! Don't make me so confused! ;D
Maybe I'll spend the next thousand dollars to go to Paris!

Kerri said...

What a great post, and such a great point you made.
Enjoy creating your garden, Carol.

Maria-Thérèse afiori.com said...

Yes! Paris! :D